2020

Hey there people!
It’s been a while since I thought of something for so long to pen it down. Okayy.. so let’s get into it. Of all the years since 1999, for the first time ever in life I actually had productive January month and that too in 2020. It was great! I started learning how to drive a car, I got my passport , got my learner’s license, was doing well in academics and that hit me! 2020 was really treating me well. But then, Australian Bushfires , Worldwar 3 threats, Kobe Bryant’s death, the CoronaVirus Pandemic , killing of George Floyd, the recent incident of a female wild elephant in Kerala falling prey to crude bait meant for wild boar and the death of bollywood actors. People all over the world are dying, there are destructions everywhere and people are terrified just to get outside their house. In between all these chaos, we had this protest regarding “ BLACK LIVES MATTER” and then “ ALL LIVES MATTER''. I go with all lives matter but that should not take away the light from the injustice that is done to the black people specifically.



Now, people started talking about mental health and all .. that made me write this particular post. I never posted anything regarding the disasters that happened in this year on any social media platform. I did not post about mental health and how it is important. Why?

Well, let me tell you. All the above things that you read are the common things that you’ve already read or posted but this here, what I am going to say is something that’s going to hit the nerve. People started talking about mental health, say no to suicide and be kind to every human and stuff. To be frank every individual is dying inside these days ; reason might be anything but every human is struggling. The only thing you know about a person is how he/she externally looks. But man, we make fun of how they look and bully them. (in a world filled with 7.5 billion people, I am talking to that one person who bullies. So do not take it personal). We are mean, we judge people and most of the time we are rude. Why are we this way? Because we are struggling inside to accept ourselves and others. We talk about feminism one day and the very next day a woman posts a video stating she ain’t a feminist because she has problems with today’s feminism. Then sister, come out and make sure you take the initiative and set things right.

All I’ve got to say is shut the hell up people, when you have got nothing to say. Just that someone has asked for your opinion , you need not vent out your baseless nonsense emotions that are toxic. If they ask you about something that you don’t know just say “ I DON’T KNOW BRO!” easy ,nay? If it isn’t supportive or a positive reaction to a situation then do not , I repeat do not open your mouth. Mouth close, do your work. Your nosy ass is not needed here. And about the social media posts , do you really think people are going to open up to you just because you asked them to? Huh? What are you, 5 years old ?? you gotta create an environment first where he/she doesn’t feel judged. You gotta be open minded to actually patiently listen to them. People who are in depression don’t need your words, they just need some space, co-living space where they are not judged because of their color, size , bank balance, career growth, gender and failures.

I mean it is ok to be a failure, it is ok to be a gender other than male or female and who cares about your complexion anyways. It is okay to be all messed up . If you want to make any change I just feel you need to be strong, kind, spread positive vibes and not just through social media bro!

I am neither against anything nor for anything. It’s just a 20 year old girl stating what she feels whilst figuring out her life.

You are 30, and sorting your life , it's fine no issues.

You are 40, you quit your job, I’m not judging you.

You are 70 and still figuring out life..??

well hello there buddy, let’s sort this thing called life together!

Be there for each other .. if things are not right try to make things right .. it is hard and it is always hard i know.. but we will sort it out sooner or later.

We are humans. Let’s try to make it easy to live here on this earth where asteroids always seem to strike.
YOU ARE A WARRIOR. YOUR LIFE IS A BATTLE BROTHER.
WARRIORS DON’T QUIT.